Martin Buber's
The Way of Man

 

1.       What is the key message of the first story (pp 9-10), and why is it said "But his heart trembled?"

God asks us questions that He already knows the answer to so as to call us to examine ourselves. This is based on the belief that we are capable of knowing who and what we are by self-examination. The chief did not what to be called to examine himself because he was afraid of what he might find out.

2.      What is the key point of the second section, "The Particular Way?"

That each human being is unique and should seek to discover and then be himself and do what he ought do in service to God.

3.      Explain, as best you can, the point Buber is making on p 18, lines 8-24.

      The way to reach God is revealed when a person comes to understand who and what he or she is in their own individuality in recognition of that absolute which create and stirs those inner desires so leading that person to that absolute, which is God, by being what he or she ought be as God intends.

4. In section III, what do you see as the difference between "patchwork" and "resolution?"

There is a conflict between body and soul where the person is not ‘all of one piece.’ When one aspect attempts to lord over the other or tries to bring the other into submission, this is what is referred to as ‘patchwork’ since there is a disunity in the person. Resolution occurs when the ‘core of the soul, the ‘divine force’ is allowed to bind the conflicting desires of body and soul to act in concert as it is intended to be.

5. What do you consider "oneness of soul" (in section III) to consist of?

When the desires of both body and soul are unified in purpose and action, in absence of conflict, a person is being what he or she ought be.

6. Explain the main message of Section IV. (Much of it is clarified on pp. 28-29).

In order to make peace with the world you must first be at peace with yourself.

7.      Try to think of an example, perhaps from your own experience or from imagination, that can illustrate this Hasidic principle that says: conflicts we have with another person are often just mirror images of the same conflict going on within our own psyche. Please describe that example.

Often times we preach hardest against that which we struggle with ourselves. In previous years in struggled with atheism so I gravitated toward atheists seeking debate and argument because I myself wanted answers; doubt is very disintegrating. A couple of years ago I struggled with the issue of free-will, despite the fact that I despise the implications of determinism I listened to and studied prominent Calvinists. I am not comfortable with only listening to what I want to hear because I view that as a form a self-brainwashing. I’d rather learn through conflict and antithesis.

About six years back I had to work with a person who brought out the worst in me, he knew how to get under my skin. As I struggle through that relationship (Long story short, both he and I wanted the driving spot at that station that was soon to become vacant, so he was trying to drive me out.) I began to see that many of the same traits that I disliked in him I came to see in myself. As much as I didn’t like it I came to accept it and confront those things in myself and start getting at the root of the problem, me. Through counseling in came to understand myself better and begin to heal some fundamental issues eating away at my core. The relationship began to improve, at least my perception of it, and perhaps we could have become friends if more time was given. ( I scored better on the performance evaluations and tests and so was appointed to the driving position. He transferred soon after.) Today we are on amiable terms with one another, and I am thankful for that conflict in my life because it was a big factor in getting me into counseling which I so desperately needed. I’m a better husband and father because of it.

8.      What does Buber mean in Section V, by not being "preoccupied with oneself?" How might forgiveness of oneself (or forgiveness of another) fit into that?

When we focus upon our sin and not upon He who conquered sin, we are only left with a hopeless, ever spirally downward spin of remorse and regret; we become self-absorbed and so preoccupied to turn towards goodness and light. I struggle with this. It is infinitely better to accept the free gift and in so being freed to focus upon that which is good. Repentance is not mere remorse or guilt, but a turning of a person towards doing and thinking about that which is good, noble, praiseworthy and true.

Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what earnestness, what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done. At every point you have proved yourselves to be innocent in this matter. 2 Corinthians 7:10-11 

9.      What do you see as the main theme of Section VI.

“In their true essence, the two worlds are one.’ The goal here is integration. As Buber stated earlier, it is man’s work to hallow creation, and here in section 6 to draw God into the world since God wants to come into the world through man. So the theme of The Way of Man comes together, integration.

10.   How might there be a "treasure" buried in your own present life situation? What might the "treasure" be that can be found only in your particular place?

My life is a gift so any ‘treasure’ I have is not of my own making. I have a wonderful wife, two beautiful children, my health, live in freedom, have a good job and financial stability. Any of these wonderful gifts could be taken from me at any time, so I must be careful as to what I put my trust in and what I value as my ‘treasure.’ To have any lasting, ultimate value I must store up treasures that are imperishable and of eternal significance. My relationships and the priorities I place on them will be of eternal significance, which the most important relationship being with God. It is when I put my relationship with God first that all my other relationships begin to be what they ought be. As the pastor who married my wife and I said, ‘Your marriage and your relationship with God functions like a triangle, the closer you both draw to God, the closer you will draw to each other.’ So ‘treasuring’ the eternal has earthly value as well.

"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 6:19-21

11.    What do you think Buber means by the first line on p 41?

I would say this means God gives man freewill; He is a perfect gentleman who will not enter where He is not invited, but will gladly enter where He is.

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