During the past few years, I
have become more aware of how diverse a group Christians are.
Scripture makes it clear that it is through faith in
Jesus' death, burial, and resurrection that we are brought into a
right relationship with God the Father. But there are many
gray areas in the Bible, and we need to carefully examine the
Scriptures and seek God's will for us in various areas. Our
beliefs about how women should wear their hair, how we
should dress, what type of music we should listen to, whether
people today should speak in tongues, and when and if the
church will be raptured., for example, will not affect our
eternal destiny, but they can, if not handled carefully and with
respect for other believers, cause division in the Body of
Christ.
Why do I bring this up? In Training
Our Daughters to Be Keepers at Home, Mrs. Ward has included
several items about which I have opinions different from
hers. I would like to mention these, not to stir up dissention,
but simply to share my thoughts with you.
First, Mrs. Ward gently, but firmly, states her
belief that women are not to wear pants. Her reasons are
good, and worthy of your consideration. But I believe this
is an issue about which every woman must decide between herself,
her husband, and the Lord. Frankly, I can't see myself
doing housework or gardening in a dress. But I do
believe a woman should look like a woman, no matter what she's
wearing.
Second, during the seventh year, you are to read and
discuss Better Health with Foot Reflexology. This
method, also known as zone therapy or compression massage,
involves applying massage to a person's feet at specific points
in order to bring about the desired healing. This theory
has its roots in Chinese medicine. Foot reflexology is
always to be done in conjunction with traditional medicine (stated
in the book); therefore, in my mind, you cannot be certain as to
what brought about the desired healing or effect. Although
there can be no harm in foot massage (as a method of relaxation
it's great!), I find the entire theory behind reflexology to be
absurd. But please, judge for yourself.
Lastly, just a caution about herbal medicine.
No one can dispute the role that plants have played in the
development of many medications (aspirin, for one). But I
am concerned about the lack of regulation surrounding herbal
products, as well as the apparent lack of understanding by the
average consumer that herbs are indeed drugs. The amount of
active ingredient in a product can vary from brand to brand, even
though the listings on the container are identical. Some
herbs are dangerous to people with certain conditions, but this
information is not printed on labels. And other herbs are
harmful in general, yet I have seen them listed in the catalog of
a well-known company which sells herbal preparations. Again,
I urge caution and research before attempting to self-medicate.
Please - check with an herbalist or consult a good book
before taking herbal remedies. Dr. Isadore Rosenfeld has
written a book called Dr. Rosenfeld's Guide to Alternative
Medicine, which is very balanced in this area. Look for
it in your local library. Another
excellent resource is Prescription for Nutritional Healing.
Please be aware that these are only my opinions.
If you don't agree, that's fine, but please be gracious
enough to allow me my opinion. Take the time to investigate
for yourself, as I continue to do. And above all, seek
the Lord. If he gives you peace about something, and it
doesn't contradict Scripture, then do as He says.